I struggle very much everyday with taking care of and nurturing myself vs. dealing with my drug addicted husband. Deep down I know that my energy needs to go towards myself, but the demons he brings around trick me into thinking I need to cater to him. He has somehow figured me out enough to know where my soft spots are regarding keeping our family together. He is sweet to me and good to the kids when he wants to be but there is still a huge dark side to him that sometimes he is denial about. He is growing spiritually in some ways but he is weighing my growth down. When I try to reach my intuition about this issue I get mixed messages. Dear beloved angels, how do I get past this burden in my life?
-ANONYMOUS or YOU'RE CONSULTING THE WRONG CRYSTALS
Your burden is not meant to be carried. You alone have the power to put your burden down by declaring and knowing it is not yours to carry. Instead, let it be a call to care for yourself more, to love yourself more, not just for you, but for your children and the world. Your love is so powerful, and by knowing this is so, you can surrender to the guidance of your angels and your true desires, the voice of your soul. You cannot change another, but as you gently bring love and care to yourself, the actions you need to take will become more apparent. You are not here to light the way for lost souls. We know you feel this way, but it is time to shift your perspective. You are here to shine brightly, yes, and if others are inspired by you, wonderful! Your light is meant to remind others, not pull them in like moths to a flame. This is what has you feel “pulled” toward the darkness. Do you see? Focus on your own light, your own joy, rather than changing others, and you not only serve the world, but will better remember the truth of who you are and stand in your power. Again, by focusing on the light and love within you, being honest about your authentic desires and needs in order to hold your light, your actions to take will be naturally be revealed to you.
I would like some guidance regarding my step daughter. Why doesn't she like me?
DEAREST BEAUTIFUL ANGEL,
The truth of who you are is not dependent on anyone outside of yourself. If someone “does not like you,” they do not see YOU, the real you! We know it hurts to have energy directed toward you that is unloving. You have the right to say, “No! This is not okay with me.” This right isn’t from “righteousness,” or “right and wrong,” but from the fierce power of your unconditional love. What is unconditional love? It is a pure eternal flame, embracing all in the fire of love. Imagine a wildfire in a forest. It does not discriminate what it chooses to touch. This is unconditional love. It freely flows and engulfs everything in the pure acceptance of its flame. This love is available to you at all times and in all situations. It calls you to go within and fan the flame of the love that you are, regardless of circumstance. Your stepdaughter is alerting you, reminding you, to be a fierce love warrior, to let your love run wild. Let her be reason to love more than ever before! If you need to step away once, twice or a hundred times and more, step away and take the time to fan the flames of the love within you. It is all within you, beloved! And, yes, there are allies and friends all around you, seen and unseen like us, your angels, who will assist you in gathering more wood for your fire, celebrating and dancing around the fire with you!
I tend to overwork and worry. I often think I should be doing more or that I’m not doing enough. How can I feel more relaxed and enjoy my life more, rather than thinking I should be busier?
We see that you know how it feels to enjoy your life without needing to be busy. You would not have asked the question if this were not true. So many of you think if you do more and be busier, then you will have earned the right to enjoy your life right now and have your dreams come true. You were born to enjoy your life! You are here to have adventures of all kinds and have fun and joy along the way! Breathe, beloved. Breathe in your beautiful surroundings, breathe in our love that surrounds you, breathe into your heart and know that you deserve joy. You have arrived and it is truly time to celebrate. Instead of thinking there is somewhere else to get to, something more to do, you can know that yes, there are adventures awaiting you. There are more adventures! Not more work or somewhere to get to. You have arrived. You already deserve your heart’s desire. We love you so dearly. From our eyes, you are so divine, so beautiful and so very worthy of feeling love, joy and fulfillment right now!